We have already heard about the female G spot. They opened it, searched hard, couldn't find it, and (apparently out of frustration) questioned its existence.
As soon as the sound subsides a little, go! – men are rumored to have a G spot too!
By the way, it is easier to find.
What is this?
The male G spot is often called the P spot. "P" stands for prostate gland.
Recall that the prostate gland is a walnut-sized gland located just below the bladder.
The P spot is not only responsible for orgasm, but also helps in reproduction by producing seminal fluid and helps the sperm to survive and flourish long after it is removed from the penis.
How to find?
Two ways - inside and outside. You can search for the G-spot in any way - the man will get amazing sensations in any case. It all depends on the degree of trust between partners.
- Inside. This point is located two inches from the entrance of the anus. Approximately at the level of the first joint of the finger.
- Externally, the prostate can also be stimulated through the perineum. The skin between the scrotum and the anus seems to be filled with nerve endings. Do not forget this during oral sex.
How to stimulate the prostate?
The first is dialogue
It is unlikely that a person will be happy if the other half suddenly decides to start such experiments. Some people are very particular about anything related to anal play. That's why dialogue comes first.
It is very important to treat each other with respect and remember that not everyone can roll with the same things. If your ex-partner likes such techniques, it does not mean that the current man will be happy with it.
Equipment
You need to prepare so that the search for the P point brings maximum pleasure to both partners. You will need:
Lubrication
Any anal sex is impossible without lubricant. Choose a high-quality lubricant such as silicone-based.
A condom
Where the anus is, there are bacteria. Yes, it's not very romantic, but that's life. Don't forget to wear a condom or latex gloves on your finger.
Anal toys
Choose according to your taste. They will add excitement.
Don't forget!
Hands
Hands should be washed thoroughly, nails should be rounded and trimmed. Infections and injuries aren't part of your plans, are they?
Create a mood
A man should be relaxed and sexually aroused. Hot bath, sensual massage, caresses - don't skimp on foreplay.
Let's get down to business
Is the person comfortable and you are ready to search for that magic spot?
But do not rush things - start with external stimulation.
Try this:
- Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub and stroke the perineum.
- Experiment with alternating between different speeds and intensities.
- With the other hand, caress the penis and testicles.
If you're ready to continue:
- Apply lubricant to your finger and slowly insert 2 - 5 cm into the anus.
- Feel your surroundings carefully to find the prostate. It should feel smooth and round to the touch.
- Once you feel it, start making gentle "come here" movements with your finger.
- Ask a man about his feelings. Speed, intensity - does it all match?
- Add hand caress or enamel to the process - a strong orgasm is ensured for the man.
Reminder for recipient
The first thing you should do is relax. Only in this case you can enjoy it to the maximum. And:
- Speak. About your feelings and the boundaries of what is allowed.
- Toilet. Prostate stimulation and anal penetration can cause both urination and defecation. It is difficult to relax with such a combination. A visit to the toilet (and a bath) is a must before the games.
- Convenience. Create all conditions for yourself. Let nothing distract you.
- Enjoy it. Everything that happens should please you. Ask your significant other to use more (less) lube, use sex toys, change positions, and don't shut up if something doesn't feel right.
Poses
You can choose any position where both partners will be comfortable. But you can start with one of these:
- Face down. The man lies on his stomach and spreads his legs a little. The partner puts a pillow under his hips and sits behind him.
- Dog. He sits on all fours, his partner is behind him.
- On the side. A man lies on his side with one knee pressed to his chest. The partner lies from behind so that it is comfortable for him to stimulate the partner's anus.
I didn't like it
This is a good. There is nothing everyone likes about sex. Maybe it's just not your thing.
If both partners are interested in continuing the experience, you can try again. So, through trial and error, find a technique they both like. Experiment with positions, sex toys, and the amount of lube.
Taste map
There are still many "hot spots" on a person's body, which many people forget for some reason. An unforgivable mistake!
focus on areas such as:
- The head of the penis. This area is filled with nerve endings. Touch, lick, suck - use them all. Especially when the prostate gland is playing. Do not forget about lubrication.
- Frenum. It is a flexible fold of skin that connects the lower part of the penis head to the foreskin. Insanely sensitive. Competent manipulation of the frenulum will give a man a strong orgasm. The frenulum can be stimulated with the tongue or the thumb of your free hand.
- Scrotum. Prostate massage combined with scrotum massage will give a man maximum pleasure. Connect the vibrating toy to the process.
P. S. You can do without sex toys, scented candles and erotic music. But it will not be possible without trust and relaxation. Focus on what's important.
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Many men absolutely refuse to have G-spot stimulation, and many guys do not even know what the prostate is and where it is located! It is necessary to correct this embarrassment - try to gradually release the man in bed and do not give up the experience. No one says to take a big dildo and chase a guy in the bedroom with it. Carefully, gradually go down to the area under the testicles - this can be done during oral sex. Try different stimulation methods and watch the man's reaction. It is very unlikely that he will refuse - he will definitely like it. And then you can go straight to the G spot.
Men's G spot: where it is and how to properly stimulate it
According to the Greeks, the mysterious G spot in men is the second heart. This poetic name is related to the fact that the whole process of awakening starts from this point. If you specifically affect this area, you can get a live orgasm. It is not enough to find the "magic button" to make a person happy. You need to learn how to stimulate it properly.
What is meant by the G spot in young people?
A man's G-spot is the prostate gland, stimulation of which causes muscle contraction. Thanks to this, the boy can get many vivid sensations. Such an orgasm is more colorful than that seen in a young man during genital stimulation.
The male G-spot is a real find for extraordinary pleasure. But to activate the magic button, you need to know where to look for it.
Where is the erogenous point and how to find it
In order to give your partner a strong orgasm, you need to know where the precious G spot is in men. The location is very interesting. If a boy's penis is on the outside, the precious "button" is located in the area between the rectum and the pubic bones. It has the shape of a walnut or chestnut, occupies an area of about 4 cm2 and weighs no more than 20 g.
In all men, the arousal point G is located below the bladder - at the top of the urethra. To detect it, it is necessary to penetrate the anus to a depth of 5-7 cm. As soon as you feel a small bulge, you can consider that the goal has been achieved.
Men are often embarrassed to seek out the G-spot for fear of being labeled as same-sex lovers. To get real pleasure, you need to get rid of this stereotype. There is nothing wrong with learning and using magic peas. You need to learn how to stimulate her properly, and then sex with the woman you love will take on new colors.
How to properly stimulate the region
In order for the G-spot to give maximum pleasure, it is necessary to properly prepare for the stimulation process. To do this you need:
- Cleanse the rectum with a laxative or enema.
- Work on trust as a couple. If you ignore this stage of preparation, the boy will not be able to relax and as a result will only get painful sensations.
- The girl needs to cut her long nails. If a person accidentally damages the internal mucous membrane, it will cause inflammation.
- In order for the stimulation of the G point to occur without unpleasant consequences, it is necessary to strictly follow the rules of hygiene. Before the procedure, you should wash your hands with soap and then put on disposable medical gloves.
- During stimulation, sexologists recommend using a special intimate lubricant that will facilitate the entry of female fingers into the anus. This is called lubricant. The more the better. It is advisable to choose a lubricant with lidocaine, a substance that helps reduce discomfort. However, it should be remembered that the analgesic effect of the lubricant begins after 10-15 minutes.
- In order for the G-spot examination to be painless, the young person needs to take a comfortable position. A good option is the lying position: the boy is on his back, and the girl is between his legs.
With your own hands
When the man takes a comfortable position, the girl's body should be warmed up with a massage. The partner should reach the partner's scrotum and massage the testicles and anus in a circular motion. Conventionally, this zone is considered the external G point in men and boys.
You can use oral sex to distract your partner. You need to carefully and slowly insert your fingers into the anus, as if screwing in a screw. This will allow you to separate the folds of the skin without causing any traumatic effect and without increasing pleasant sensations.
Once you find the G-spot, you shouldn't turn it into a stuck button or joystick. The girl should imagine that there is a clitoris under the finger, which should be lightly pressed and caressed with soft circular movements. When a man approaches climax, sexologists recommend rhythmically pressing the G-spot about 1 time per 1 second.
Use of special devices
You can give pleasure to your loved one with the help of sex toys. They allow to affect both external and internal "peas".Modern erotic toys include:
- anal beads;
- vibration stimulators;
- dildos.
Sexologists recommend using anal beads for untrained men. For this, it is necessary to place them in the anus and not take them out until the intimacy with the lady is over.
When the orgasm is "on the verge", the woman should start releasing 1 ball at a time. It will give a person incredible pleasure. When the boy gets used to such intimate games, you can take other devices to bed. They should be used in the same way as your fingers.
Precautions and contraindications
Not all men can be affected by the prostate. Such intimate caresses have a number of contraindications.These include the following diseases:
- hemorrhoids;
- chronic inflammation of the prostate gland, as well as acute prostatitis;
- polyps;
- urinary problems;
- inflammatory processes in the rectum.
If during anal caresses mistakes are made in the stimulation technology, hygiene rules are not taken into account and contraindications are ignored, then infections occur in the prostate gland and inflammatory processes worsen. It is advisable to consult a doctor before an intimate experience.
G-spot stimulation in young men is not only pleasant, but also a useful procedure that has a beneficial effect on men's health. Don't be shy about exploring your own body. The more pleasure points found, the better.
G-spot massage: everything for men and women, effective techniques
Understanding true lust intimately is impossible without carefully studying the erogenous zones of both your partner and yourself. This knowledge will allow you to have the greatest pleasure. The G spot plays an important role in finding and studying erogenous zones. Anyone who wants to get the most out of intimacy should learn how to massage the G-spot.
A few words about the history of the G-spot
Sexuality has been studied mainly from the female perspective. For the male body, it used to be believed that the beginning of orgasm and ejaculation was the greatest pleasure from sex, although later they revised their opinion. In the 80s of the last year, sexologists (mainly in Western countries) began to meet more and more patients experiencing reactive orgasm (or ejaculation).
Such women described their feelings as multiple (short-term) orgasms, strong and lively. However, a few decades ago, in 1950, the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg talked about a special zone in the female genital organs, the stimulation of which leads to an increase in sexual desire and rapid orgasm, as well as the release of fluid as a result.
After some time, after the death of the scientist, this zone began to be called the G point for short. In some sources, one can also find such a description - point j, which is the definition of the same thing.
Much later, scientists found that a similar zone exists not only in women, but also in men. That is, if a certain area is stimulated during caresses, a man can achieve a stronger and brighter orgasm.
The location of the G spot in women
This is one of the most common questions people ask. To begin with, you need to understand that you need to look for a zone, an area, and not a "point" or "pea", as many believe. This zone is located in the vagina, on the front wall, about 3-5 cm from the entrance. This area is not directly on the wall, but rather inside it, that is, it is not the mucous membrane that needs to be stimulated, but the deeper tissues.
To better understand the location of the g-spot in women, it is necessary to determine the location of the urethra. Closer to the urethral outlet, around it, are Skene's glands (or paraurethral glands), which are responsible for the most sensual sensations. If the girl lies on her back, the zone itself will be located directly under the pubis and clitoris.
You can try to feel this area by palpation, that is, feel it with your fingers. For this, the woman lies on her back. The man turns his hand facing the palm and carefully inserts 1 or 2 fingers into the partner's vagina. Now you should carefully check the front surface of your partner's vagina with your fingertips. After 3-5 cm from the entrance, you may feel some lumpiness and roughness. For some, the surface of the zone even resembles the sky in the mouth. The inner tissues of this zone are the desired G-spot.
Stimulation of the G spot in women
There are several ways to stimulate this area. Some require a partner, others can be performed independently, and others require the mandatory use of special devices (sex toys). So, the most common methods are:
Using your fingers
This is the simplest and most accessible way. You can use your fingers to stimulate the desired area alone or with a partner, which will additionally excite both of you. A man can also massage his partner's G-spot, which will allow him to monitor her level of arousal and literally control the entire process to speed up or slow down certain stages of stimulation.
So, your hands must be clean, because basic hygiene rules are literally the safety of your partner and yourself. It's a good idea to have lube on hand, as lubrication always reduces friction and improves sliding. Meanwhile, some couples avoid lubrication because it reduces sensitivity.
In any case, the girl should be excited, which means that in this process there should be foreplay (of all kinds - kissing, touching and even cunnilingus). Only when the partner is literally wet "in there" can you begin to stimulate the G-spot. Your finger must be inserted carefully, checking every millimeter inside.
After finding the desired area, you should strengthen the massage movements by pressing lightly on the skin. The finger always points up. If everything is done correctly, it is very likely that your partner will have an orgasm soon.
During sex
Surprisingly, stimulating the G spot in women during sex is not as easy as it seems. Here you should consider the positions for intercourse as much as possible. The angle of penetration should be such that the required area is constantly rubbed by the head of the partner's penis.
For example, the most popular missionary position in the classic version is not suitable for any purposes, because the penetration occurs from the top down and not the other way around. To stimulate the G-spot, you should raise your partner's pelvis slightly so that her pubis is level with the man's groin area. In this case, the angle of penetration will be "vertical", which means that the G-spot will be naturally stimulated by the head of the penis.
Everyone's favorite doggie-style pose needs a little tweaking, too. A man should not lean on his knees, but should stand with his legs slightly bent. Her pelvis will be slightly higher than the level of her partner's vagina, and the head of the penis will just rest against the front wall of the vagina where the desired area is located. Finally, there is one more position for women who like the "on top" position.
In this case, you should turn 180 degrees to your partner and position yourself so that the man's head is between the girl's legs and she puts her elbows on the surface of the bed. The front parts of the partners' bodies are facing up and their faces are facing each other. Here the zone is stimulated by the outer edge of the head of the penis. Here, the woman herself regulates and controls the process, which means she can achieve the most brilliant orgasm.
Use of sex toys
Everything is very simple here. In specialized stores, you can find devices, most often dildos, with a slightly curved tip, which has a more expressive effect on the desired area. Such devices can have additional features - rotation, vibration, various textures and shapes, as well as modes. You can also perform stimulation using them independently or with a partner.
Stimulation of the prostate: which organ is it?
The prostate gland is located at the beginning of the urethra, below the bladder, behind the pubic bone. It has a great role in sexual, reproductive function and urination. First of all, the prostate gland produces a fluid that keeps the sperm moist and mobile. By learning how to stimulate a man's prostate, you can help him get rid of excess fluid and improve his erection.
The male G spot is considered
Although the existence of this point has been questioned (one reasonable version is the inner part of the clitoris), it should be understood that the prostate is also considered an "orgasm button". It is even called the second heart of a man. Once you learn how to stimulate his prostate, he can cum, you will be able to completely conquer and surprise him.
At first, massage had a medical purpose, but men quickly realized that it brought great pleasure. The excitement from G-spot stimulation relaxes the partner and maintains the erection. Applying knowledge of how and where to stimulate the prostate helps to achieve a strong and fast orgasm.
It's not that deep
The reproductive accessory gland is located behind the anal wall in the direction of the navel, a few centimeters from the sphincter. About three quarters of a finger deep into the anus, that is, it is quite possible to reach it. Prostate stimulation should be very careful because of its high sensitivity.
Why is it necessary to stimulate the prostate?
Even if a man has a rough idea of how to stimulate the prostate for pleasure, there are other important reasons. So, for what purposes is massage needed:
- It improves blood circulation in the pelvic organs and blood circulation in the prostate gland.
- For the removal of lymph and secretions from the prostate gland, elimination of congestion, reduction of swelling due to fluid accumulation, relief of symptoms of prostatitis, its treatment and prevention.
- Strengthening the muscles of the prostate gland.
- Strengthening erection and increasing potency and sexual desire.
- Accelerates the entry of drugs into the gland.
How to massage the prostate
Ideally, you should see a doctor and watch a video on how to stimulate a man's prostate. Despite the beneficial effects, the procedure can cause pain and even harm the chosen one. But with skillful and careful behavior, prostate massage will only be useful.
Discuss the details
As with anything related to sex, you need your partner's consent for any manipulation. This is the expansion of your intimate boundaries and the realization of sexual fantasies. If you are close enough, you can try this forbidden fruit.
Keep it simple
There is no need to make prostate stimulation an event of incredible proportions. Plus, you don't even have to put your fingers in! You can practice discussing with your partner how you can stimulate the prostate.
For example, it will be easier to carry out your plan in a knee-elbow position or on your side, preferably on the right. Knees should be brought closer to the stomach. In this case, it is easier to relax the desired area. Another way to better stimulate the prostate from the outside is to massage the area around the anus or touch it with your tongue. Either make it part of oral sex while your hands are on the penis, or focus on the area between the penis and the testicles (indirect stimulation). There are many ways to achieve the desired result.
Relax
Both of! If the man does not want to raise his pelvis, let him lie on his back and position yourself between his legs. When you feel he is ready, gently insert your finger into his anus and start stimulating your husband's or boyfriend's prostate.
If your fingers encounter obstacles during the massage, take your time and wait for it to relax properly. Maybe run your lips or fingertips over her body. In this case, boys also need foreplay. Sexologists advise not to start sex with it. It is better to start the massage when both of you are sufficiently "warmed up" and orgasm is approaching.
But if you are so free and curious, it is not forbidden to try different variations at the beginning, middle or end.